Questions to Ask When Touring
Touring senior living communities can feel overwhelming. Use this list of essential questions to evaluate each community and make the best decision for your loved one.
Key Takeaways
- •Covers Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living, Skilled Nursing
- •Data current as of January 2026
Questions About Care & Staff
- What is the staff-to-resident ratio?
- What training do caregivers receive?
- Is there a nurse on-site 24/7?
- How do you handle medical emergencies?
- Can you accommodate changing care needs over time?
- How do you handle medications?
- What is the monthly base rate?
- What services are included in the base rate?
- What costs extra? (Get a full list!)
- How often do rates increase?
- Is there a community fee or move-in deposit?
- What happens if we need to leave?
- Can I see a sample activity calendar?
- What are the dining options and meal times?
- Can we see a sample menu?
- Are there outdoor spaces for residents?
- What transportation is available?
- Can residents have pets?
- Can I see several different floor plans?
- Can residents bring their own furniture?
- Are apartments equipped with emergency call systems?
- What is included (cable, WiFi, utilities)?
- Is housekeeping included? How often?
- Do residents seem happy and engaged?
- Does the community smell clean and fresh?
- Are staff members friendly and attentive?
- Could I picture my loved one living here?
- ●Evasive answers about costs or care
- ●High staff turnover
- ●Strong odors or unclean common areas
- ●Residents left alone for long periods
- ●Reluctance to let you talk to current residents or families
Questions About Costs
Questions About Daily Life
Questions About the Apartment
Questions to Ask Yourself
Red Flags to Watch For
Pro Tip: Visit at different times of day, including mealtime, to get a true picture of daily life.
Data sourced from 165,000+ verified senior living communities across all 50 states. Our guides combine real pricing data, CARES quality scores, and expert analysis to help families make informed decisions.
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